Styling a mantel sounds easy for someone who loves to decorate. And usually it is – it’s a fun place to have as a focal point. Especially at Christmas! But styling a 12ft mantel for Christmas can be a daunting task! It can look overwhelming – even for someone who loves to decorate and wanted the 12ft mantle in the first place so she’d have lots of space to display things.
Now technically this isn’t even a mantel, it’s a shelf. But since I don’t have a mantel, and in the blog world styling a mantel is a big deal, I sometimes call my shelf a mantel just cause it sounds better and everyone gets the idea of what I’m doing better. Mantel – shelf – whatever 😀
I was going to take step-by-step photos of the whole process of putting together the most amazing 12ft mantel you’ve ever seen. It was going to be epic.
Because I get a lot of questions about how I manage to style my loooonnnng shelf every season. So I was going to be all calm and cool about it and show you exactly how its done. So you would all be inspired to install a 12ft shelf and style it.
And I was doing it early – 2 weeks before I normally decorate for Christmas. Because I also had a store to decorate and I needed to get my house all decked out so I could use my leftover decor to add to what I had for the store. It was going to be so great. I would have all these great ideas and it was going to go so smoothly and I would be so relaxed and not stressed cause I was getting it all done so early.
Maybe you know me well enough to already have this figured out, but I don’t do well with decorating my home on a set schedule or on a day I’ve marked on the calendar! I do best when I’m winging it and when I feel really inspired. And not surprisingly, on the day I had set as the day to decorate I wasn’t at all inspired. At all. Nada. Not one little bit. I had a ton of other stuff going on. Pillow orders. Blog posts to write. All kinds of stuff that needed done on my computer. I don’t even remember what all was going on but I do know that my stress level was HIGH. And as the afternoon hours started ticking by I knew that if I was going to decorate that shelf and photograph the process, I was going to have to get on it while I had some natural light. Cause only natural light works for really good photos for the blog.
So out came the boxes of Christmas decor.
And the decor that had been on the shelf all summer came down. Mostly throughout the year I just change out a few things here and there with the seasons. But for Christmas I usually empty the entire shelf and start fresh.
All the stuff that comes off the shelf gets stacked on tables and the couch so I can use it if I want to work it in with the new display.
The Christmas decor boxes get opened and shuffled through so I can refresh my memory with what all I have and start formulating the look I want to go with. This is just a very small part of my Christmas decor. Not in the photo are about 6 more tubs.
I decided I was ready to try something in the center of the shelf besides the old window. So I switched it with this old door. And tried to ignore the knot in my stomach. By now the whole room was a mess from tearing the shelf apart and getting the Christmas decor out. And I just wasn’t feeling it. The decor fever was not taking hold. But I had started now and I didn’t want the mess around for days while I waited for inspiration to strike.
I added this old gate back in. Then decided I didn’t like it.
My teen was helping me a bit and we tried the trees and vintage deer. Wasn’t feeling it. I tried my new horse. Didn’t like him there either.
Liked the look of the trees in the center. Added the houses. Didn’t like that either. The small houses went on the pile to go to the store.
At this point I admitted defeat. I was not going to be able to force myself to get my decor on just because I had decided it had to be today. So I turned it over to my daughter and said ‘have at it. Do what you want and I’ll change it later if I can’t live with it’.
She had a few things she tried that I said ‘no’ to but this is pretty much her creation. I sat in my chair and did some things on my computer that were desperately needing done. I checked some things off my to-do list and that knot in my stomach started to loosen. I reasoned with myself over all the stuff I had thought I would get done that day and started mentally shuffling them to other days and deadlines. And I felt much better.
I added a few things here and there to what my daughter had done to the 12ft mantel shelf. I vetoed her idea of stringing the lights along the underside of the shelf too. And I stood back and proclaimed it good. And I’ve been enjoying those twinkle lights for weeks now. And I just ordered a new light for this room. I very much dislike ceiling fans. As of a couple years ago we don’t need this fan anymore to circulate the heat. When we used the stove in the corner we needed the fan. Now we have a furnace and we don’t use the stove. And the ceiling fan has been bugging me. A lot. I had a few ideas about what I wanted for a light. I was hoping to take a few elements that I love and create my own light. But since it is a project I can’t do on my own, and I will have to have my hubby’s help, it isn’t done yet. So I gave up and ordered a chandelier. I hope it works well in the space. And maybe I’ll still create that light I had plans for but at least for now I can get rid of the ceiling fan and like the light in my living room. Now to get the stove removed from the room too…
So there you have it. My shelf got decorated, and I love how it turned out. But I didn’t do it all myself and I didn’t end up with an epic tutorial on styling a 12ft mantel to wow you with. Can’t win them all I guess. 😀
Be blessed these last few days before Christmas. Take time to reflect on the meaning of the Season. Savor the time with family. Drink yummy hot drinks. Smile at everyone as you shop. Say ‘Merry Christmas’ often.
Believe. Believe in the hope of Christmas. Believe in the Child of Christmas.
May Peace reign in your hearts today and always.
Jill
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I so love this entire room! I tend to decorate just like you, when the spirit moves me lol. Stopping by from Blogtalk FB page. I pinned and also FB and Twitter! Newest follower, too!
xoKathleen
Thanks so much Kathleen!
It’s beautiful, Jill! Layering, texture, repetiton, great theme! You did good. Love it!
I’m the same way…always behind and winging it with the best intentions.
I have my Christmas Home Tour up, I hope you stop by!
Jane x
Thanks Jane – I’ve decided that no matter what I get done early or how early I start I’ll always come up with something to keep me just a bit behind! LOL!
Love the way it turned out. Emma did a great job!
Yes she did!
Wow! What a job! I would be totally intimidated by a space that large, but you did great!
Thank you Kristen. Sometimes it’s more of a challenge than others but we usually manage to pull it together somehow.
Your daughter is showing her creativity like her mom. I think it’s wonderful to get the kids involved.
Thanks Nancy! It was fun working with her and letting her do her thing for a bit!
There is such a warm, peaceful feeling in your room and home. I think the best part is that you did it with your daughter. She will always remember doing this project together with you. Someday when she is decorating her own “mantel”, she will reflect on this sweet memory. We all have much on our plates this time of year, so your candor is always so refreshing. I think you hit the nail on the head with your shelf, but most of all with the true meaning of spending time together making memories with those we love the most. After all, that is what the gift of His birth is all about. Love and Hope……………..MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Thank you Carla. I remember when I started helping my Mom with the decor. And then when I got married I remember thinking how I couldn’t imagine handing the job over to my daughter someday cause I liked doing it so much. but as I get older and busier it feels so good to hand off some stuff and let someone else deal with it!
Love how your 12 ft. mantel turned out, as well as the rest of your room. Kudos to you for tackling a 12 ft. shelf. That’s a lot of decorating to do! Merry Christmas! -Kristi
Thank you Kristi! I usually love to have all the space but occasionally I get overwhelmed. Glad my daughter likes to decorate too!
Hi Jill! I think your daughter did a wonderful job on the mantle/shelf. You have raised her right! I love the lights along the bottom of the display.
Thank you so much and have a wonderful Christmas!